So I got a package frommy SP today full of sock making goodies, and after searching the net for a pattern I came up void. So I decide to drive to a LYS *
which is 35 min away mind you* to see if they had any good patterns. So I got dressed. I'm looking cute I might say...Tight button shirt and pants and pants from H&M and my shoes were kicking...And I was rocking out my new scarlet hair *this is important for later...*
So I get there and notice its filled with knitters, and the owner was behind the counter and greeted me. We started having a conversation about the reason I was there...
*Scene*
Her: What brings you in today?
Me: Well a friend of mine just sent me a box full of goodies to make socks and I was wanting to look around at your sock area..
Her: GREAT! All that stuff is in this corner. What all did she send you?
Me: I have new needles and yarn...They yarn she gave me is super cute, but not really my style so I was going to learn on that and see if I can find some other colorways that I might like to knit with.
Her: Where did you learn to knit?
Me: I taught myself one night out of boredom and its kinda become more than a hobby. LOL
Her: What all have you made?
Me: A few hats, purses, a sweater or two...
Her: That's good. What kind of needles did you get?
Me: size 1, bamboo...I'm scared I might snap them when I'm knitting LOL
Her: LOL yea that does suck. Well, then I sell more needles so its ok...
*we laugh*
*
I start looking thru the yarn till I have a question and turn to ask her about patterns at which point a family walked in and she started talking to them. So I quietly waited till she was done talking to them. Then after they were done she got a phone call so I waited till she was done on the phone...Looking over my shoulder to see if she was done now and again. Finally 4 cops showed up and started talking to her. Again I wait till she is done so I can ask her about sock patterns. I hear a few words of their conversation..."Red hair" and "Him over there" were the ones that got my attention.*
Cop: Will you step outside for me...
Me: Umm ok...
Cop: What brings you here today?
Me: I was hoping to find a sock pattern.
Cop: Do you have any weapons or drugs on you?
Me: *taken back* Ummm... I have a cell phone...
Cop: the reason we walked you out of here is because the woman inside said that she felt threatened with you in her store. She was robbed a bit ago and you being here made her feel uncomfortable.
Me: WHAT? I was looking thru sock yarn...Can I talk to her?
Cop: Sure we will see is she wants to talk to you
*a second cop goes in and starts talking to her*
Cop 2: She will be right out...
Cop 1: Do you have any id on you?
*hands him my D.L*
* Shop owner comes out*
Owner: the reason I did this was because I didn't feel comfortable with you in my store, I was just robbed and I when you walked in I felt this huntch that you're going to hit me again and my husband told me if I get those that I should act on them
Me: Yes but I have shopped here before, and I believe it was your daughter-in-law that served me because her husband was knitting in the back room.
Her: Well I didn't recognize you and so I called the cops.
Me: *shocked*
Her: You were looking at me more than the yarn...
Me: because I wanted to ask you a question about patterns. You were busy so I waited to talk to you.
Her: Oh...
Me: And your husband is the one that told me about your store. He seen me knitting at Starbucks and handed me cards and told me to come here and look at your stuff.
Her: umm...
Me: All I wanted was a stupid pattern...
Cop: This is a private shop if you would like him to leave we can see to it.
Her: No No its ok...He can stay. *she goes back inside*
Cop: Ok...Can you stay out here Krys we are still running your id thru the scanner.
*finally the cops let me go and I'm allowed to go back in. I walk in and all of the knitters are staying at me like I'm a criminal...*
Her: Here are some good patterns for beginners, an I was told that this is a GREAT book to have if you want to learn to knit...*hands me "Sensational Sock"*
Me: Yea I heard that was good too...
Her: These are nice too...*hands me some other patterns*
*after I realized what just happened I started shaking and could talk:
Her: Oh my...Your shaking...
Me: *looks up at her trying not to cry* I have to leave...I can't stay here...
*drops the patterns and hurries to the door before I start crying*
*End Scene*
so as soon as I left I collapsed on her front patio and started crying...I called DH, I couldn't talk he thought I was in a wreck at first....
After crying for a few min I was able to drive myself to work *Starbucks* and have a cup of coffee to sooth me...
I told my boss what happened and she couldn't believe it...
After I got home I sent this to the store owner via email...
Dear XxXxXxi * I hope that I show you spell your name*; First and foremost I would like to say that I am sorry you were robbed recently. Working in retail I have been held up a few times and I know that isn't a situation I would place anybody in. The reason I'm writing to you is that today you had 4 police officers take me out of your shop and question me. These questions included my purpose for being there and if I had any drugs or weapons on me. I have never fired a gun in my life so those questions were extremely offensive. You're husband is actually the one that told me about your store. He seen me knitting in Starbucks a few months ago and hand me a few cards and told me that I should stop by sometime, and I have but the times that I came in you weren't working and I believe the person that was said that she was your daughter-in-law. Another reason you never see me is because I usually go to Knitty Paws which is closer to me by around 10 - 15 min, I came into town just so I can go to your store. What I don't understand is when I walked in we talked about the supplies that I had i.e needle sizes and what they were made out of, and a few former projects of mine and I don't think some that was going to rob you would take the time to talk to you esp if you have a shop full of clients. I wasn't wearing baggy clothes or looked threatening in anyway. I'm hoping the reason you did what you did had nothing to do with my skin tone, and if it did I'm sorry...I'm sorry that you only seen color *skin as well as hair* and not the person that wanted to make his first pair of socks. When I walked back into your shop I was SOO embarrassed! This is the first time ANYTHING like this has ever happened to me. And what hurt me most was that you never once said that you were sorry. You explained why you did it but you never said that you were sorry about it. I don't like to interrupt people. So every time I was going to ask you something you were busy. I waited for you to finish the conversation you were having with the family that walked in after me. I waited till you got off the phone. I was even waiting to talk to you while the police were in there... Your web site says: Stop in, plan to stay a bit. Enjoy a cup of coffee and meet fellow fiber artists. Knit a friendship at Cottage Knits! I tried and all I got was public embarrassment. People staring at me like I was a criminal about to do something wrong. I hope you never have to feel like I did today. You seem like a nice woman and I would still like to frequent your shop from time to time. I just wanted to let you know how what you did today hurt and embarrassed me. I hope that I get some kind of apology after all this is said and done... Thank you, Krystofer Dixon Did I over react or was this sooo uncalled for?
